Beyond Boundaries
- Have you ever
found yourself stuck when you and your partner are each expressing and
defending your respective positions?
- Have you
experienced how the rigidity of boundaries can get in the way of your
connecting and accomplishing things with others?
- Have you
noticed how some people hide their true feelings behind positions and
rules?
As we learn how to take care of our needs and
protect ourselves from harm, the first stage is to gain the ability to set
clear and firm boundaries.
It is essential to know what our limits are, be able
to clearly express them, and have the ability to enforce them.
And it is equally crucial that we be grounded in our
right to say “No”.
Yet -- setting boundaries has limitations. In our process of personal
evolution, we often hold onto our need to set boundaries longer than we
need to and in more situations that we need to.
Boundaries are especially effective if you don’t
trust the other or if the other is an enemy. You need to set boundaries
such as locking your door or gating your yard from thieves.
But in your healthy, loving, intimate relationships,
there can be power, freedom and collaboration in expressing your interests
versus your position.
This is the next step beyond Giving Good “No” or
Boundaries for
“Bad Girls”.
In a healthy, intimate relationship, if you express your interests -- that
is, what lies underneath your position or why you have that position --
then there’s room for the other to be a collaborator in your success.
In other words, we all have a motivation for having a
given boundary. If you’re willing to reveal and share with your loved one
what you’re trying to protect with that boundary, then there’s an
invitation for the other to be a partner in your self-care.
Are you ready for the
next step? Are you ready to develop the ability to play at a level
Beyond Boundaries?
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Longwell

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it accelerated into action, and just silliness and rip-roaring fun.
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someone to the edge. Its nice to have permission.
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go, and when not to.
"I intend to indulge in a
longer workshop in the future."
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Wellness
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