Radical Intimacy:
the Yoga of Telling the Truth
By Taber Shadburne
Transform your
relationships and yourself with audaciously authentic, radically
intimate communication.
Learn
ideas and practice skills that will help you:
* Let go of shame, fear of rejection, and the attachment to approval...
* Fully express yourself & support others in doing the same...
* Be
completely and compassionately honest...
* Go beyond blame & use conflict creatively...
* Ask openly for everything you really want...
* Create deep love, connection & intimacy.
We
humans are rather paranoid creatures. Other animals are occasionally,
and quite sensibly, afraid of being eaten. But we hominids have made
things like approval, being "right," and social propriety into survival
issues. Consequently, we often live in a dysfunctional degree of fear
and anxiety.
We
develop unconscious social "survival" strategies, and use these
delusional defenses to try to secure a counterfeit love and acceptance,
an imaginary safety.
Works
all right (kinda), for a while (seems better than being ostracized), but
these habitual defense mechanisms end up coming at a high cost -- social
survival at the expense of full aliveness.
This
shows up especially in our habitual ways of communicating with each
other, which are unconsciously defensive. We usually communicate in ways
which, although the social norm, cost us real love and freedom and
connection. But there is another way...
We can
use conscious communication -- with courage and compassion -- to
dismantle the defenses with which we have unwittingly imprisoned
ourselves. We can learn the language -- of head, heart, and body -- that
will free us to boldly be ourselves, and to connect with others in a
whole new way, to love ourselves and others more deeply than ever
before.
"Real
spiritual evolution is often challenging. True transformation demands
time in the trenches,
but it offers so much in return: a new freedom, a new ability to
love, a new way of being."
Bio:
Taber Shadburne
helps people transform their lives. He’s been studying comparative
mysticism, Buddhism, psychology, and conscious communication since the
early ‘80’s, and teaching and counseling since 1990. He’s completed two
years in residence at Dharma Rain Zen Center, dozens of silent meditation
retreats, an M.A. in Counseling Psychology, training as a
Community-Building facilitator by M. Scott Peck’s F.C.E., certification as
a Radical Honesty Master Trainer and extensive work with Brad Blanton, and
many professional trainings. For a few years, he taught workshops, and
led alternative "One World Worship" services for the Radical Spirit
community. (Ironically, he coined the term Radical Intimacy before getting
involved with all these other "Radicals.") He was recently published in
"The Heart Of Healing: Inspired Ideas, Wisdom And Comfort From Today's
Leading Voices" and is working on another book. He is also a professional
singer-songwriter, with an “unplugged” solo album that he is re-recording
with a band. He lives in community in Oakland, where he recently founded
the Church of Soul, a progressive spiritual community center for
transformation, celebration and service.
“I have experienced
many excellent workshop leaders, and Taber is among the best. I loved how
clearly he explained and demonstrated deep spiritual and psychological
principles in his teaching.”
– Susan Campbell,
Ph.D. psychologist, speaker, workshop leader, author of Getting Real,
The Couples Journey and other titles
“In a world of carefully manicured
spiritual teachers, Taber is refreshingly real and human. He brings a
depth of presence to each moment, standing with others in their
vulnerability, beckoning us to embrace still more of our being. I have
seen him ride the waves of fierce storms without shrinking. He has touched
me in my most vulnerable places and helped mediate relationship
challenges. His empath radar dissolves the illusions in which we wrap
ourselves, thus enabling him to lead groups into much more intimate
zones. I am grateful to have Taber as a friend and a comrade in the quest
for authentic realization. I wholeheartedly recommend working with him”
– Stephen Dinan, author of Radical Spirit:
Spiritual Writings from the Voices of Tomorrow
“ Taber
skillfully guided even the most resistant among us to a place of openness
and healing...Most of all I was left with a strong conviction that I don't
have to keep on waiting for my life to turn out one way or another...that
it's wonderful the way it is right NOW."
–
Joe Tavormina, Director of Real Estate with Prandium Inc
“
Taber’s teaching style reminds me of a nature guide. He comfortably
walks you along unmapped paths through new territory and encourages you to
explore. He gives you room, yet brings all his wisdom and sincerity to
bear. He really wants to know his participants, and there always seem to
be after-workshop conversations which create a wonderful community among
the participants themselves.”
– Danielle
LaVigna, dance instructor, community activist and volunteer coordinator
with Next Generation.
“ Taber
is uniquely gifted . He has an honest, and compassionate way of
communicating--with friends, clients, and workshop participants alike.
Words can't express how strongly I recommend his work. Because he has
spent decades cultivating a compassionate understanding of himself and
other people, he brings to any interaction an almost uncanny ability to
read minds, hearts, feelings--and to support people in expressing
themselves authentically, clearing all kinds of misunderstanding. People
discover their own hidden treasures of warmth, passion, and forgiveness;
all this while speaking vulnerably and openly himself. To connect with
Taber is to experience yourself more fully and deeply.
I think he's one of the best therapist- communication
guru-shaman-types on this planet.”
– Grace
Llewellyn, author of the Teenage Liberation Handbook, and
Guerilla Learning, and Director of Not Back to School Camp.
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